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What are the 3 most common and critical mistakes that men make when booking escorts?
1. Men don’t care who they pay for!
Being impatient, desperate, frustrated, exhausted, resigned, suppressing pleasures for a long time always giving priority to other things, substances, or combinations of these factors can drive this first one of the common mistakes that men make when booking escorts. Then when the urges hit, these men want escorts immediately. So they call several and wait who responds…
The danger of this strategy is that men end up with unsuitable escorts or “entertainers” who will care about their [the escorts or entertainers’] interests and treat the men accordingly…. Here will start a vicious circle: men pay big money for awkward fake(d) “pleasure” which makes cringe and regret instead of being a pleasure. Those men will be frustrated and repeat the mistake…
This cycle can go on for years and cuts the precious time these men have on the planet… How is that fun? Wouldn’t choosing an escort who had all the traits of your dreams be fun? Gentlemen, look at it this way: if a woman called you and didn’t know who she was talking to and where she saw your number, what message would she send? That she doesn’t care – or was wasting your time. If she doesn’t care, what basis is that for your getting a good time? The message is subtle, but powerful and profoundly disrespectful. Does the fact that she’s paying entitle her to disrespect? If it does, will disrespect breed respect?
2. The most dangerous of the mistakes that men make when booking escorts: they don’t do the research
Many men don’t even remember where they see the details of the women they call. Again, impulsive behaviour. Let’s feel good. Who cares about research? Let’s have fun right now – often also in a state altered by alcohol, drugs, or both. That state is definitely not right for research. But gentlemen, if you don’t do the research, how do you know what you’re going into?
Hiring the wrong person could have tragic – at worst even fatal – consequences for your health, careers, families, lives! You don’t know who people are and what they can do to you. The adult industry attracts a very high number of dangerous people, organised crime, liars, scammers, fraudsters. Strangers who do it for money will want your money – and do anything to get it! So be careful in your best interest!
Another benefit of researching the woman whose pictures you liked in an ad is that you know what you can expect. You know what you will get for your money. And you won’t put yourself in bad situations. Plus you’ll seem much more respectful if you show that you’ve made an informed choice! Planning prevents poor performance. Investing time in research of the pretty woman in the picture that has seduced your attention will pay you higher dividends than will be the amount of her fee. I also recommend that you read this article – its gist is related to this topic.
3. Men don’t know what they want
This may sound the craziest of the mistakes that men make when looking for escorts, but is the most common one. Even men who care about who they pay for and do their research often do not know what they want from escorts. Or even why they look for escorts. Think about it: do you have clear criteria for finding escorts? Do you know what you want from them and your relationship with them?
What’s your goal of wanting to hire escorts or other adult entertainers? To feed your ego? To blunt the emptiness in your life from which you can’t run? To deflect your anger at something or someone? To prove to yourself that money can buy you pleasure?
Or to celebrate life and its finer moments? Or even to have a stable consistent escort / sexual partner / friend whom you can entrust matters that your family and friends shouldn’t know? What do you want her to do and be for you? Get this clear – even write it down. You will focus on finding the right person instead of making more mistakes that men make when looking for escorts. Not leaving it to chance.
Men who make these mistakes when looking for escorts…
most often look for women in the low rungs of the industry. But there’s plenty of room for improvement in the high rungs too. If all men who are in my circle of friends can have been selective about their companion, so can you – if you’re one of the men who has made these mistakes that men make when booking escorts so often and therefore needs to learn this lesson.
The added benefit of caring, doing the research, and knowing what you want is that your escorts or partners in fun will view you as an intelligent man worthy of their time and energy. Hence your relationships will begin on a solid basis. And you should do all three things! After all, don’t you want to buy connection which should be far more intimate than are all other connections with all other people in your life?
I’m here to help you get clear about what you want, why you should care who you go with, and how to do your research before you go with them. So that you don’t keep people who don’t deserve your money and heart in business, and so that you get joy from this hobby instead of unnecessary hell because of these stupid mistakes that men make when looking for escorts.
Written by Kay-Lauren of https://light-bringer-world.com/.
Holistic companion, massage, coaching, healer by intimacy for professional men over 35 London UK – Toronto – international
