The Light Bringer To The World 
Money, men, escorts… Gentlemen, you vote with every coin that you spend. Spending coins is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you buy a product or service you help an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote says that you want the product or service to exist in the world. So what implications does this have on your choice of spending your notes and coins on escorts and other entertainment?
Most men decide for themselves
How do your expenditures reflect your values? Do you choose to contribute to causes that are important to you? Do you buy products or services that are well designed or executed even if they’re more expensive than those of lower quality? Again, the next time you surf the net for your next companion or other type of entertainment, how will your answers to these questions influence your choices?
- How do you want to vote with your finances from now?
- How do you decide that a product or service is worth what you spend on it?
- What are your criteria for selecting this product or service?
- How much is enough?
- How do you make choices about how to spend your financial resources?
And what else is there to bear in mind?
Why do so many guys cringe when this topic enters the conversations? Is it due to cultural conditioning? After all, who likes to talk about finances in their personal lives? Or why do men often have such a problem with discussing finances? Perhaps it shows that money is a rich area for them to explore in some good coaching…
But on the other end of this continuum it stuns to observe how many gentlemen of any age are prepared to throw currency at strangers on impulse without even speaking to the strangers. Do these gentlemen trust so easily that the strange greedy women who profit from the men’s misery won’t rip them off? Or do these men care? Can they afford not to care? Does the urge to have artificial sex with strangers win over care about money? Is ordering sex by text message without even hearing the sexual partner’s voice worth the risk of losing money to another disappointment?
And if those questions do not sufficiently stimulate some serious thinking, what society do these impulsive careless acts create and encourage? On one hand even the rich carefully count money and calculate in what direction they spend it. On the other hand it seems that when the penis rises, man has no conscience. But if man has no conscience and is willing to spend carelessly, he shouldn’t complain about the higher price of real quality and value! He shouldn’t present objections that the rates are too high or he can’t afford the rates.
Finances are a science like every other sphere of life
There are plenty of pragmatic men who navigate this science very well and have enough for everything they need and want. This article is to inspire the odd reader who has indeed been throwing currency at sellers of sex by text message on impulse without thinking too much about who he goes with. At least speaking to the seller can save a man a lot of currency because speaking to the seller tells far more than communicating by text messages. Written language can be interpreted differently and breed misunderstandings more easily than a conversation in which one hears the tone, intonation, and energy with which words are said. Exactly the tone etc. can make a difference between understanding and misunderstanding.
If some good coaching around money would be better than throwing it at strangers who profit from your impulsive behaviour, or perhaps another way to explore this sensitive topic, I’d like to be the person whom you would remember for having helped you change things in life for the better. So I invite you to take my hand…
Written by Kay-Lauren of https://light-bringer-world.com/.
Holistic companion, massage, coaching, healer by intimacy for professional men over 35 London UK – Toronto – international
